Beggars, family, and society: Exploring how individuals experiencing homelessness find time, space for sexual intimacy

By Oluseyi Owoyomi

The phenomenon of beggars giving birth to children raises numerous questions about their circumstances and the societal structures that affect their lives. One major point of inquiry is how these individuals find the time and space for sexual intimacy. Despite their harsh living conditions, beggars, like anyone else, have natural desires and the need for human connection. Often, they find temporary, secluded spots for privacy, such as abandoned buildings, under bridges, or secluded areas in parks.

These locations provide a semblance of intimacy, away from the public eye.The men impregnating these women are often fellow beggars, individuals living on the fringes of society, or even those exploiting the vulnerable.

These relationships can range from consensual to exploitative, with the latter being a significant concern due to the lack of protection and support for these women.

Access to antenatal care for pregnant beggars is severely limited. Many rely on non-governmental organizations (NGOs), charitable clinics, or public health programs that offer free or low-cost services.

Unfortunately, these services are not always easily accessible, and many pregnant beggars do not receive the proper care they need. When it comes time to give birth, they often end up in overcrowded public hospitals or even on the streets, assisted by other beggars or volunteers.

The future of children born to beggars is fraught with challenges. They are often exposed to extreme poverty, lack of education, malnutrition, and health issues. The cycle of poverty can be difficult to break, leading many of these children to remain in the same circumstances as their parents.

To address these issues, society and the government must take a multi-faceted approach. Governments can implement policies that provide better access to healthcare, education, and social services for the homeless and impoverished.

Establishing shelters with comprehensive support services, including healthcare, counseling, and job training, can help break the cycle of poverty.

Society can contribute by supporting NGOs and initiatives aimed at assisting the homeless, advocating for policy changes, and fostering a more inclusive community that provides opportunities for everyone, regardless of their socio-economic status.